Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend”. Have you ever had a friend that was bold enough to speak truth into your life? Bold enough to risk angering or offending you because they value you and want you lifted up in maturity? I do have a friend like that. She has hung in there with me for 25 years, speaking truth in love, praying for things I could not see, and loving me for the spirit in me that God created for His good pleasure.
I used to be very immature in faith, but I dearly loved Jesus. I would get angry with people and resentful for always being corrected. I didn’t understand the value of iron sharpening iron. Simply put, wisdom and maturity allow acceptance of sharpening. There was a long time that I felt insignificant, didn’t measure up, would never be enough, or right, or good. However, at the same time, I knew my friend loved me and wanted me to grow in faith with understanding. I didn’t know anything about spiritual warfare. I didn’t know Satan was the accuser of the brethren, and I didn’t know he hammered lies into my head, created offense and used it all to destroy me. I thought every corrective word was an attack on my character. I thought church people were mean. I hardened my heart. I was deceived into believing all those lies. And I didn’t tell anyone, I suffered alone because I didn’t think my feelings were valid.
But God intervened! He delivered me from offense and turned those accusations and criticisms into the understanding of the loving words of wisdom they were meant to be. He softened my heart, opened my eyes and untwisted the words I heard. Scripture washed my heart and healed me. My spirit was renewed, my soul (mind, will and emotions) were corrected to see the truth in Christ. The word of God opened my eyes to see the character of God, His fatherly love and grace. I believed the Word, I believed what it said about me. I believed I am dearly loved, I am healed, delivered, provided for and protected. I have the mind of Christ, I don’t have a spirit of fear, but a spirit of love, power and a sound mind. I possess those things so deep in my spirit that they cannot be removed. I became able to be sharpened. I saw truth in love and attached myself to it.
A dull knife is worthless and even dangerous. A sharp knife has been renewed, finely honed, ground on and formed into a sharp, effective instrument.
God is faithful to enlighten, strengthen and mature those who seek Him. He said He would never leave us or forsake us. We go from glory to glory, deeper and deeper with Him. He sends us true godly friends who speak the truth and do not compromise. These are the friends to invest in. The one who is not afraid to speak truth is the one to listen to. Take in those words and prayerfully digest them. Pray that every seed of truth will flourish in you. Pray every tiny particle of faith and love be multiplied back to that friend. Honor that friend, love that friend. She was truly sent into your life by God to come alongside you.
I’m truly grateful for my friend today, and I’m grateful to God for maintaining that long term friendship, making our fellowship actual worship, and bringing fun and adventure to one another as we remember God’s word. Iron sharpens Iron. I pray this word is iron to you today. All glory to God.